The role of the Muslim woman as a mother

 Islam tells a mother to focus on being an ideal mother and attaches great importance to this. The role of mother in family life is very important. The overall responsibility of conceiving and nurturing the child depends on the mother alone. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): (Qur'an 31:15)



In the light of Qur'an and Hadith, an ideal mother should keep a sharp eye on the following matters. The mother wants to raise the child in the ideal, first she has to develop in that ideal. The mother's relationship with the child should be intense. Just as the mother will look at the child with respect, so the mother should look at the child's personality. Teach children Islamic Sahih Aqeedah. Never argue or quarrel with the husband in the presence of children. From time to time, the children will tell stories through constructive truths and advanced stories. Send the boys to the mosque for five daily prayers with father, brother or friends. The mother has to create the environment in such a way that the child fully abides by the religious rules and regulations. The mother is responsible for all the inconsistencies of the child. As a result, the mother has to be the first to purify her child, practice religion, etc.,He has to practice religion. If the mother is indifferent to religious matters, then the child will never obey the mother's instructions in this regard. Therefore, if there is any mistake in the mother in religious matters, it should be fixed quickly. If they are flawless, the child will also be flawless. The mother should build a cordial relationship with the child. Be aware and cautious in their behavior, conversation and movement. The child's mentality must be understood. We have to be sincere in meeting their needs.




To all the children of the world, the word 'mother' is the name of the strongest relationship, as well as the most sacred and sweetest word. A loving mother is the first thing that comes to mind as a place of absolute comfort and reassurance during the extreme crisis of a child's life.


In the absence of an ideal mother, the individual, society and nation are bound to be endangered. So the position or status of a Muslim woman in Islam as a mother is unimaginable. It is said in the Holy Hadith about the mother, "The paradise of the child under the feet of the mother." In this short word hadith, the view of Islam about mother is very widely stated. Thus the satisfaction of the mother is an essential responsibility of a child.


Islam, the religion of peace, justice and humanity, has given mother indescribable dignity and respect. In the eyes of Islam, mother is three times more important than father. In this connection, it has been narrated in the hadith that Hazrat Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: A man came to the service of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and asked, O Messenger of Allah! Who has the right to receive the best service from me among the people? The Prophet (PBUH) said, "Your mother." The man wanted to know again, then who? He said, "Your mother." The man wanted to know again, then who? He said, "Your mother." The man wanted to know again, then who? He said, Your father. (Sahih Bukhari and Muslim)


Mothers are usually the norm. Islam did not give any very difficult conditions to be an ideal mother. The matter is not very difficult. Mothers do a lot of extra work, which Islam has not forced them to do. For example, raising a child. In our country, it would not be wrong to say that the mother takes care of the child. The mother is always busy for her child from before Fajr to going to bed. How hard they do! And Dad stays busy all day with his world.


Now if the mother wants, she should not care for her child more than her husband; The more time the husband gives, the more time he will give; The more the husband takes care of her, the more he will take care of her. Then he can do it. It will not be a sin not to realize the right. But he must respond to reduce the affection for the child. But mothers do for their children what they do not need.


If a mother only believes in Allah and His Messenger and can perform her duties properly, then her Hereafter will be successful.


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